Grief and Loss

Sustaining a loss has a significant emotional impact.  In addition to grieving who or what has been lost, students may experience disruption of their beliefs, values, and identity.  The effects of loss often go on long after mourning rituals are over, leaving students in need of support when they are expected to “get back to normal.”  Grief is not a disease or disorder; it is a normal emotional response that must run its course.  Sometimes students can get stuck in grief or can feel isolated in their experience. Acknowledging loss and providing space for someone to talk can make a big difference in their healing.

Recognize

  • Exhaustion, fatigue
  • Changes in eating and sleeping habits
  • Mood changes
  • Missed classes/decrease in performance
  • Suicidal thoughts, fears of death or sickness
  • Withdrawal/disruption in relationships
  • Anxiety, anger, depression
  • Difficulty concentrating                                                               

Respond

  • Check in with the student about how they’re doing
  • Listen
  • Don’t tell them to get over it or move on
  • Respect their spiritual or religious beliefs.  Do not impose your own beliefs about why people die and what happens after death.
  • It is okay not to know what to say or do. Just be there.
  • Encourage them to seek support                    

Resources

  • CAPS (x8059)

  • CAPS On Call (24/365) (610-328-7768)

  • Interfaith Center (x8328)